Sex

   Unlike some Semitic peoples of the Near East, the ancient Egyptians had a rather relaxed view of sex and sexuality. While wisdom literatureadvised moderation in sexual life and also in drinking, sex was regarded as a natural and enjoyable part of the human condition. Men were certainly not expected to be monogamous in marriage, although discretion for the sake of the family in regard to other relationships was preferable. Women were expected to be faithful if married, but if not, divorce was available for the husband if he wished, and adultery was not normally treated as a major offense in ordinary life despite the fact that in literature faithless wives always suffer misfortune. Independent women could behave as they chose, as in the Tale of Truth and Falsehood. The repeated allegations of “rape” at Deirel-Medina imply that sexual relationships between individuals, whether married or unmarried, were not uncommon.

   Homosexuality is also mentioned in some texts, and it is clear that sexual relationships between men were regarded as abnormal but not of any great concern of the state or other individuals. It was the passive partner, who played the part of a woman, who was viewed with greater contempt. The Egyptians believed that sexual practices were the concern of the individuals themselves and were of no interest to the community unless sexual jealousy happened to arouse tensions that required the interference of the authorities.

Historical Dictionary Of Ancient Egypt by Morris L. Bierbrier